Lessons from Suits: Mastering Charisma, Strategy & Winning

Confidence starts with body language. Harvey moves with certainty—never hesitant, never timid. Your presence should demand attention, not ask for it. Know your worth and draw confidence from it.

Harvey always dictates the tone and direction of any interaction. Charisma comes from leading conversations, not reacting to them.

People don’t respect pleaders, they respect winners. Be so good that people have no choice but to respect you. “Good lawyers negotiate from a position of strength, not weakness”

Every word Harvey says is sharp, deliberate, and impactful. Speak with clarity and confidence—people listen to those who sound like they know what they’re talking about.

The only thing losers hate more than osing are the ones who beat them. The higher you get the further, they will want to see you fall.

People sense hesitation and insecurity. Even in defeat, Harvey remains composed—because confidence isn’t about never failing, it’s about how you handle failure.

Harvey knows what people want, fear, and value. Learn to analyze people’s motivations, and you’ll always have the upper hand.

Charisma isn’t about reacting—it’s about controlling the situation. Stay calm under pressure and never let them see you sweat.

Harvey’s suits aren’t just fashion—they’re armor. People treat you based on how you present yourself. “People respond to how we’re dressed. So like it or not, this is what you have to do.”

Harvey knows when to speak and when to let silence do the work. Silence creates tension and puts pressure on the other person to fill the gap.

“Sometimes the best way to win a fight is to avoid it.”

Confidence comes from competence. Back up your words with results, and you’ll never need to prove yourself. Do what you do, talk your sh** - they will notice.

Harvey never walks into a situation without a plan to win. It isn’t just about confidence—it’s about preparation and control.

Use your struggles as fuel. Harvey’s tough childhood didn’t break him—it made him unstoppable.

“I’m against having emotions, not against using them.”

Playing it safe doesn’t lead to greatness. Harvey takes bold moves, but they’re always calculated with a stone cold poker face.